Forever, lets challenge our comfort zones.

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261353_484500764950656_1758493135_nOpportunity knocks at your door once, so they say. Pessimists trash it simply because of all the worries and fear and let it slip away as they watch. We all do so, especially when we don’t understand it and many will still do it, even after reading my blog.

Big dreams push us into working extremely hard and many a time we feel stranded especially when we cannot see the road beyond today. We look at our incapability to attain those big dreams and stop there. We magnify our limitations and make a conclusion, this cannot be done.

The journey of a thousand miles starts with one single step. About two weeks ago, one of my cousins and namesake, sent me a message that reads:

“I am not sure if you have heard of network marketing or whether you already are into one. I would really like to invite you and your friends to a meeting on 14th June at Laico Regency Hotel. A very good friend of mine and my upline sponsor is going to be there. He will make some presentations and he will have a chat with you and your friends, and all the other people who I will invite. This is a big-time opportunity and the entrance fee is only Kshs 500.”206376_484514758282590_1596824875_n

I read this once. At the back of my mind I remembered how many people have told me about network marketing and I have never felt motivated, not even once. I quickly replied to her message.

“Can I ask, this network marketing is it the same as that one of marketing and selling Aloe Vera products? Does it require me to join, then look for other people to join then sell the product and the scheme goes on and on, and I think the more you sell the more you earn. Something like that, right?

If that is the case, yes, I have heard about it. 3 people have told me about it. The truth is, I don’t think I am able to do this kind of business. Sales and marketing is clearly not my strong hold, and not my line of interest. I am too impatient and I am not good at convincing people to buy things out of persuasion. This is simply because, I know that if I need something, I will go to the supermarket and look for it. Why do I need somebody to convince me to buy something? Anyway, thank you for your thoughts. I am not ruling it out, I will create time and hear them out. Is that ok? (Note my reasons as to why I cannot do this.)

Not convinced by my self-induced limitations, Patience went ahead to insist that I need to hear them out. “Please create time. You know, I was introduced to this thing back when I was in college, I wish I was brave enough, I would have been very far by now. Looking back, I ask myself, why did I delay this much. And as you will realize, you need very minimal efforts. You actually don’t need to persuade anyone to buy anything. There is so much that you need to understand about this whole idea of network or multilevel marketing. Please plan to attend the meeting and make sure you speak one-on-one with my guy! He will make you understand this concept.”

The persuasion went on and on, followed with phone calls.

5422_488817971185602_656489889_nThe meeting at Laico Regency was scheduled for last Friday at 5.30pm. I leave work at 3.30pm and on Fridays the temptation to go home is really, something special. I struggled with the idea of going home, of letting my cousin down and later explaining to her, ‘you know, I was extremely busy and couldn’t make it.’ I tried asking my colleagues at the office to join me for this, none could buy the idea. Finally I said, Patience, you will be stuck on the jam for so long, so instead of wasting your time and fuel, why don’t you give this thing a benefit of doubt? After all, you have nothing to lose. At 5pm, I left the office.

At 5.20pm, I made it. Looking around, there were absolutely no faces I could recognize. I thought to myself, this is really going to be a long evening. They would better start this. Trust Kenyans to be late all the time, the meeting officially started at 6.30pm. With one hour of waiting while reading one of my favorite books ‘Don’t sweat the small stuff,’ I kept repeating this, “It better be worth my time.”

Parked to the brim, the moment came, and the Forever Living Presentations begun. From the Managing Director, to the various testimonials and finally came the Tanzanian guy, Enos Salema. Young, energetic and focused to share his presentation. At that very moment, came the turning point. Listening to how he started and how far he has come, how he has managed to overcome his fears and now living his dreams, it was quite inspiring.

Getting all this information from Enos himself on a one on one, with the evidence of his financial rewards out of this business was clear motivation and that indeed anything is possible. Fear is and will always be the greatest setback for us to achieve our dreams. Self-inflicted limitations will always be the reasons as to why we can never reach our dreams.

Enos making a Presentation at Laico Regency
Enos making a Presentation at Laico Regency

Feeling inspired, fired up and ready to go, I booked for a private meeting with Enos so that I could bring a few friends to discuss how we can also manage to work it out. Your guess is as good as mine, only one person accompanied me in this. Of course, that is all I needed.

The rest? Everyone thought they had better things to do. I could understand this as many people have misconception concerning Network Marketing. “Finally you have fallen for the pyramid scheme Patience.  Focus on your career, you excel better that way or on businesses that do not promise instant riches and you will make your millions. The only way to quick riches is drugs or thuggery. Anything else is a hoax.  Those guys signing you the song have sung the same song to many others. And remember, you are not a hawker” Came in a text from one of my friends.

Then I consulted one of my uncles, who has always been my key consultants when it comes to financial matters.“It is a great business and you can excel in Network Marketing, only that it needs a lot of hardwork. I haven’t met any successful person from this business; they all start well but somehow fizzle out and change businesses.”

Now, that was encouraging. At this point, I know of people who have been in this business and who could show me their statements. I convinced myself, there is no reason as to why I should let this chance slip away. I am ready to challenge myself and see to it, that indeed, I can overcome my self- inflicted fears.

8548_485905258143540_1635031844_nI know a number of people who have tried out this business and came out successful and I know a number of those who have failed miserably. As for me, I am going to go it my way and I am ready to give it a trial. Getting to know about the individual products and their amazing benefits on my body sounds exciting, getting paid to use these products even more exciting and my road to becoming a millionaire will one day be a reality, who knows? Feel free to join me and if you feel quite inspired by this, please join and let’s give it a try! “The truth is, when it comes to money, you are still going to have to take that first step. If you take it now, instead of later, you will be many steps closer to your dreams by this time next year.” Richard Carlson.

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I believe in a just society and I am a strong believer in Ralph Waldo Emerson words: “The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate and to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.”

9 thoughts on “Forever, lets challenge our comfort zones.

  • 18th June 2013 at 1:27 pm

    My Dear ,
    I am glad you have finally seen the light and embraced this. Read ” Business of the 21st Century” By Robert .T. Kiyosaki and that will get you fired up for this business, It’s sad that instead of many of us become curious about this all they do is criticise, but i shouldn’t be blaming them, guess those who approach them are the ones who don’t know how to express themselves, My Ultimate Goal in this business is Time with my Precious family and Financial Freedom forgetting not the globe trotting bit.
    Attend the training sessions that way you get to know more about it and how it works, Money is in here yes but some get to hack it the first month and others take a few months to hack the benefits and the less patience ones never live to enjoy the goodies.
    So far i have got myself Priceless and loads of information i fee like i have just started living. Nowadays i ask myself where was i all those years?
    I am not out spoken and never though i could sell an idea to anyone but now….
    Welcome on board Girl. Remember you are in Control

    • 18th June 2013 at 1:55 pm

      Yipeeeeeeee yipeeee,
      A simple inspiration from experts like you is all I need. Keep me encouraged,I will be happy to hear from you.

  • 18th June 2013 at 4:48 pm

    6 years a go i never thought i would be getting invitations to different countries to share my story and above all to let people know that, hey there is still hope in achieving our dreams. Most people today have forgotten about their amazing dreams, finding themselves waking up each morning to go to jobs so that they can pay the bills. The sad thing is working to pay the bills is not easy as well, so why not challenge yourself into something bigger than that, and today Forever is truly the most best opportunity in the world. I remember back in Jan 2007 when i introduced my best friends to Forever Living Products, literally NONE of them supported me, some even went further warning me to concentrate on starting REAL businesses!!!. How thankful i am to GOD for the courage that kept me going. Today 2013, EVERYTHING about my life has changed!!! I have literally achieved what most people call dreams, you know building a house, living in a beautiful apartment, owing a brand new car, owing a number of plots and acres of farms! But ofcourse my dreams are getting bigger and bigger each day!!!Dont get me wrong am not saying all this to brag but rather to just show you what can happen if you choose to take Forever Living Products like what it is…A BIG BUSINESS..
    More people today can change their live because of Forever, you have a chance too!!!! Never forget that you will always have our support in this business!!!…Found this short video clip that i think its worth sharing

  • 18th June 2013 at 9:03 pm

    Yours is a living inspiration. I am sure many would love to be in your shoe on a day like this. I am happy to have met you and to have heard the story from you.
    I wish you all the very best in your life, even as you plan to pursue bigger dreams.
    Champions, forever, lets keep challenging our comfort zones.

  • 19th June 2013 at 10:38 am

    You are a big inspiration, the way you immerse yourself into fighting for the Best that your life can bring, under the umbrella of The Most Beautiful Business on Earth!
    We have to be willing to make big Choices in life to take a Chance at something that has the power to significantly improve the qualities of our lives in terms of Good Health, Financial Freedom and Total Independence in life, otherwise our lives will never Change for the Best.
    Am proud to be part of this global Forever family, and its always a real pleasure to welcome more and more people to work with as they get started on their Forever journey
    Welcome to the future with NO LIMITATIONS!
    To your Great Success!!

    • 19th June 2013 at 11:09 am

      Thank you Elizabeth. I feel so inspired reading from you. Yes, I know this is not an easy decision, looking ahead, I see all the challenges, but hey, most challenges are simply imagined. So, yes, we have resolved to give it a trial, and indeed, we have nothing to lose. Hold our hand and we shall be here to walk this walk with you.

  • 19th June 2013 at 8:17 pm

    Your article is awesome! Am atleast happy to know that am not the only person who really doubts the genuinity in Network marketing. . . but u changed my point of view about it. i would love to be trained and be part of the network. am based in nairobi. how can i reach you?

    • 24th June 2013 at 1:45 pm

      Hey Leah,
      Thank you for your comment. In deed, I have just sent you a private email, kindly get intouch with me and we can plan on how to go about arranging for a training for you. I wish you all the very best.

  • 13th August 2013 at 11:21 am

    I religiously read your inspiring blogs, but this had passed me by.. i think i’ve been badly preoccupied but thank God that the catchy headline has played a role to attract my eyes! i just read it, and yay!! am so challenged. i got to lay my hands on this network marketing too! no looking back!


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